i am 17, and i live with my boyfriend. he is always going and doin things and never invites me. basically like every other teenage girl i get all insecure and i breakdown and get depressed b/c i am always alone. it has been about 2 weeks since ive put on make-up and got all dressed up. does any one know, if i got dressed right now and put on make-up and got all pretty, will i feel any better? and will it get my boyfriends attintion???

please i need some girl to girl help!!!!

i think u should put on some makeup and get all dressed up... That usually does help with guy problems.. Cuz then they realize what they're missing. But if he doesn't invite you ne where, hell invite yourself.. And if he tells u no.. break up with the little fucker.. Oh and there's no reason to feel depressed and alone.. You can go places too. Go places with some friends or family.. It's not as if that guy is the only person in the whole world.

I concur with falloutgirl

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well thanx guys.....

I really think you should ditch the loser

Stop fucking whining and stay with him. It's not like you can ever do any better, and you don't want to be alone do you? You're acting so fucking stupid, this dude you're with seriously needs to get you acquainted with the back of his hand... BITCH

your face looks like something i shit up today after eating corn and beans

If ur boyfriend goes out without inviting u then go somewhere and don't invite him. Show him what it feels like to be left out and hurt.

go with prettygurls advice...try not to live in reality and branch out

well makeup mite help-but what he will reely notice is the way u act. dont act depressed-u can hav fun without him & still go out
xx

The best thing to do is talk to him. If he is worth it then he would listen to you and do whatever is right. It wouldn't hurt to make an effort to look nice for him, that is good on your part and it would be great on his part to notice and acknowledge you. But if you want to be deeply romantically involved talk to him about it.

I suppose putting making up and getting dressed up could help you feel better about yourself and show your boyfriend what hes missing. But you shouldnt really need to do that to get his attention.
Ask him why he never invites you any where with him. You've got to stop making him the centre of your world go out with your friends there the ones who are going to be there no matter what. If you start hanging out with your friends or doing new things this could help you a lot.
Chin up your only 17 you've got a life of fun ahead of you )

it seems like u love to be around yo man and that is kool, maybe u should try talkin to him bout that, or just tellin him u feel right off back

ok, it seems like if u live wit dis guy and he never invites u to go where hes goin, he must be tappin sometin

My mom always told me that when you put on makeup and make urself look all pretty you feel better about yourself... When you look like shit... it shows others you feel like shit and that you don't care what you look like... that's when people start to ignore you.. so my advice for you is to chose a day to start dressing up and looking "pretty" and you will feel much better about yourself.. and maybe even your bf will notice the change in you and invite you more places with him.

Well, to be perfectly frank with you it wouldn't help if you got all dressed up and make-uped bc then you would only be sitting at home all dressed up with no where to go. In the end it would only make you feel worse. If your boyfriend goes out and does things with out you. Make him understand your insecurities. Go out with your friends your girls and have a life on your own as well. A woman should never depend on a man. both of you need your space, and time to be without eachother as well. IT will never work if you both do not have lives outside of eachother. You should also let him know how he is making you feel. Communication is key to a healthy and long relationship. I'm no expert. but all my relationships that i have ever been in has lasted over four years. and my current five... im 23. Just a little tip for you dont look so despereate to be with him. estabish your own identity let him know he's replaceable. be your own independace.. bc making him engulfed in you and vis versa will only bit you in your ass. if you have a reply you can e mail me at Qbanteese@gmail.com

Making yourself "become pretty" agian will most likely cure your sort of depression, I had the same problem sept i wasn't living with him, it'll make you feel better, just act really happy around him and stuff.