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Hey, I think I got molested, or is it my fault? Please Help ME! en>fr fr>en
By booty_babe09 Comments: 75, member since Sat Apr 10, 2004
On Fri Dec 17, 2004 07:41 PM

this is really long so dont comment unless you have read all of it please!
O/k well, im a little ashamed of this, and sometimes thinks it's my fault. But i do think that everything is my fault. But it just seems that i could do something to prevent all of this, so it never would have happened. Ok well when i was in 4th grade my dad got re-married. She has a daughter in my grade (8th), a son in 9th grade, and a son in 10th grd. I think it started when i was in 5th grade, her son Matt**(lets say)thats in 9th grade now, so would have been in 6th, started getting close to me. But then when he was in 7th, and i was in 6th he started to feel me up. Like touch my boobs,and that was about it. I was so shocked. Like he was my stepbrother!! And i just sorta sat there confused, and dissapointed, and ashmaed. Then in the summer that i was going into 7th, and he was going into 8th. It got way out of hand!He started to touch a lot of places on my body, and he sucked my boobs, almost tried to finger me.I could never get away from him because he would pin me too the floor. and if i screamed he would be off me by that time. I had a boyfriend at this time, and i told him about it. And he threatened Matt** and he stopped for a while, then did it two more times. And if i told my stepmom and my father i knew they wouldnt believe me. Me and my boyfriend dated for like 9 months. I told him about it after i trusted him enough. He was FURIOUS. and at the time sorta friends with Matt**. He threatened Matt**. and during that time Matt** didnt do hardly anything, because my boyfriend was pretty big. Then towards the end of our relationship he started back up but jst little. Like just trying to tickle me and getting higher. And i didnt tell my boyfriend. Anyways we broke up in July, and now Matt** has started again, but not as worse, but still!!! And i try to get away the best i can, but i cant...He like pins me to the floor. And i try to kick him, and bite, him and everything nothign works!!!:(..And so my ex is the only one that knows. And so I trusted him even though we havnt talked scince like July like two weeks ago. And he said he'd help. Then the next day i came home and jason was crying and his moms liek "ALEX, why do u keep telling poeple Matt** raped you. We all know its not true, and he's gonna be humuilated at school." And stuff, and i geuzz Matt** thought Roy** believed it.Roy is my friend that is like a REALLY REALLY good friend thas a boy, and is sorta friends with benifits.And is also Matts** friedn. So i had to go to his house in front of jason and jill and say it wastn true. And he's still doing it, after all that shit!! What should i do! Please help me!!

23 Replies to Hey, I think I got molested, or is it my fault? Please Help ME!

re: Hey, I think I got molested, or is it my fault? Please Help ME! en>fr fr>en
By dark_angel2006 Comments: 2, member since Wed Dec 15, 2004
On Fri Dec 17, 2004 07:57 PM
Hey don't be blaming yourself for what is happening to you. Have you tryed talking to the police or a councelor? You could try talkin to a counsler and see what they tell you to do. Or you could just go strait to the police and turn him in for sexual harrassment. Neways thats all I can think of right now. Good luck, and try not to be so hard on yourself about this. Later
re: Hey, I think I got molested, or is it my fault? Please Help ME! en>fr fr>en
By booty_babe09 Comments: 75, member since Sat Apr 10, 2004
On Sat Dec 18, 2004 09:49 AM
No, I havnt tried talking to the police. When I went to councoling I told her that he use to do it. Because at the time he wasnt. But now, everyone thinks that Im fine now, but i still cut and feel the same inside bout mylife. I wish i would just die. Anyways, I dont think that i could really go to the police, i mean think what would happen to my family. My stepmom would think i was lying. My dad woudl want to beat the fuck out of Matt**..I jst dont know.....
OK, I feel the same en>fr fr>en
By troublemaker5225 Comments: 33, member since Fri Oct 22, 2004
On Sat Dec 18, 2004 05:14 PM
Hey, Im Chelsea. Im not going to try and give you the "Greatest advice in the world because i dont know you, but i can try and help. What he is doing to you is wrong. Completely. There isnt anyway in this world its your fault. I ussed to think everything was my fault too. When I was younger my dad sexually abused me and ive come to realize thats his problem and he needs help not me. Life isnt easy at all. I used to cut myself too because i thought that thatwas the only pain i could control but ive realized thats not a way to control anything. I cant say all i want to rite now but if u want to talk more u can email me at troublemaker5225@yahoo.com
re: Hey, I think I got molested, or is it my fault? Please Help ME! en>fr fr>en
By omghottie1 Comments: 228, member since Sat Nov 06, 2004
On Sat Dec 18, 2004 06:52 PM
incest is awesome! just go with it baby, and send me some pics
2 omghottie1 en>fr fr>en
By troublemaker5225 Comments: 33, member since Fri Oct 22, 2004
On Sat Dec 18, 2004 08:58 PM
ur a fuckin fag u fuckin freak!!! To: OMGHOTTIE1
re: Hey, I think I got molested, or is it my fault? Please Help ME! en>fr fr>en
By booty_babe09 Comments: 75, member since Sat Apr 10, 2004
On Sat Dec 18, 2004 09:08 PM
Hey, thanks troublemaker!
Omg tha is so sick! And nasty, and i would never send u pics of me!!!!
re: Hey, I think I got molested, or is it my fault? Please Help ME! en>fr fr>en
By randomheart84 Comments: 277, member since Thu Nov 25, 2004
On Sun Dec 19, 2004 08:29 AM
for real troublemaker, that dude has some serious, serious thrill issues. He has said something really rude on almost every one of these forums! He's a jackass.
re: Hey, I think I got molested, or is it my fault? Please Help ME! en>fr fr>en
By luvalot4813 Comments: 182, member since Wed Sep 22, 2004
On Sun Dec 19, 2004 12:47 PM
It isn't your fault it was his and you did all you could do even though he didn't stop but i would try to record or tape what he does and then take it to your parents and show them so they will know that you aren't lying!!


hope you have some luck
re: Hey, I think I got molested, or is it my fault? Please Help ME! en>fr fr>en
By omghottie1 Comments: 228, member since Sat Nov 06, 2004
On Sun Dec 19, 2004 12:54 PM
Quit flirting with ur borther u fucknig slut
PS: tell ur sister to call me.
take pics of her calling me
re: Hey, I think I got molested, or is it my fault? Please Help ME! en>fr fr>en
By booty_babe09 Comments: 75, member since Sat Apr 10, 2004
On Sun Dec 19, 2004 02:00 PM
Omghottie1--u r such an asshole..do u think i want him on me?!?!?!..well i dont..so stop writing in here if ur just gonna be a dick head...dont you have better things to do???

video record him..ive never thought of that before..thas a good idea!
re: Hey, I think I got molested, or is it my fault? Please Help ME! en>fr fr>en
By omghottie1 Comments: 228, member since Sat Nov 06, 2004
On Sun Dec 19, 2004 02:02 PM
yeah then send me the video you dirty incestual whore.
re: Hey, I think I got molested, or is it my fault? Please Help ME! en>fr fr>en
By Junebabe92 Comments: 78, member since Mon Dec 06, 2004
On Mon Dec 20, 2004 02:02 PM
Your fucking dumbass..your such an ass To:OMGHottie1

Ne way i think you should video tape him sometime..then take it to the police instead of ur parents, cause it might be to much for your stepmom and she might take it form you and hide it or something..idk but take it to the police. they can do something about it..Getting him in trouble would be a great Christmas present for you too, he would prob. go to jail and you would never have to go through that agian. Good Luck and never give up..Email me at Severin_12@yahoo.com if u want to talk more.
re: Hey, I think I got molested, or is it my fault? Please Help ME! en>fr fr>en
By kevinivek Comments: 66, member since Mon Dec 20, 2004
On Mon Dec 20, 2004 05:42 PM
ur a dirty lil whore who asked to be molested..postin on an internet site doesnt help u loser..
re: Hey, I think I got molested, or is it my fault? Please Help ME! en>fr fr>en
By Raif Comments: 19, member since Tue Dec 21, 2004
On Tue Dec 21, 2004 12:02 PM
Well, obviously the girls of this generation are retards who like getting raped, molested, etc so do me and omghottie1 a favor and send us some pics and video. Make sure you struggle a little, i like that.
re: Hey, I think I got molested, or is it my fault? Please Help ME! en>fr fr>en
By Junebabe92 Comments: 78, member since Mon Dec 06, 2004
On Tue Dec 21, 2004 07:38 PM
all of you boys are freaks..Girls dont like getting raped you fags..Boys are just to pushy and nasty..Your fucking dumb

you should try and video tape him and take it to the police
NO IT ISN'T YOUR FAULT!!!! en>fr fr>en
By tara3 Comments: 58, member since Wed Dec 22, 2004
On Wed Dec 22, 2004 03:26 PM
This is your stepbrother? Tell him the next time he touches you, you'll tell the school guidance counslor, your teachers, your minister, priest, or rabbi and anyone else you can think of that will listen. He pins you on the floor and tells you it's 'your' fault? If that's not bad enough, you almost believe him? NO, IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT, HE'S A PERVERT AND NEEDS TO BE STOPPED. You shouldn't have your life ruined because he can't control himself, THAT'S NOT YOUR PROBLEM, IT'S HIS. AND MAKE SURE HE KNOWS IT. Do everything you can also to avoid ever being alone with him - "ANYWHERE". Hope I've help you to feel better about yourself and to end the 'problem' That's for all the unwanted and unwelcome 'touching'. If he has actually 'raped' you, (put his dick inside you) report him to your school if your parents don't believe you and do anything about it.
re: Hey, I think I got molested, or is it my fault? Please Help ME! en>fr fr>en
By Flyboy Comments: 431, member since Thu Jul 15, 2004
On Wed Dec 22, 2004 04:54 PM
fuk counselours, next time take something hard right to his fuking temple so he'll go unconscious, then when he's unconcious fuk him up even more,lol
re: Hey, I think I got molested, or is it my fault? Please Help ME! en>fr fr>en
By booty_babe09 Comments: 75, member since Sat Apr 10, 2004
On Wed Dec 22, 2004 06:53 PM
Hey..thanks for all the advice junebabe92, tara3, and flyboy..And no i dont like getting meloseted by my stepbrother!! Thats sick, and cruel! Yea, Im sorta agreeing with Flyboy. I mean counslers are worthless and a waste of time, Ive been there before, lots of times...lol...But, and police i dont know, if i got him on tape they'd have to do somethign, but otherwise, the cops around here are worthless, they just sit around and wait for em to see it, or until it gets WAY OUT OF HAND!! But anywyz, he hasnt done it for a while, because he's been gone a lot. Yea, i usually try to stay away from him...
re: Hey, I think I got molested, or is it my fault? Please Help ME! en>fr fr>en
By omghottie1 Comments: 228, member since Sat Nov 06, 2004
On Wed Dec 22, 2004 07:00 PM
you.. like.. having.. sex.. with.. your.. brother.
dickheads en>fr fr>en
By dat_funkyxxx_grl Comments: 22, member since Wed Oct 18, 2006
On Wed Oct 18, 2006 06:14 PM
ok flyboy and omghottie, ur total dickheads and what the fuck? R u tryin 2 b funny or sumtin cuz ur just GAY!



Anyway, this is not ur fault and u need to do something about it! Dont just b another girl who got raped, stick ^ 4 urself!
re: Hey, I think I got molested, or is it my fault? Please Help ME! en>fr fr>en
By damn_fine_mami26 Comments: 5, member since Sat Nov 25, 2006
On Sat Nov 25, 2006 11:51 AM
it anit yo fault. i understand that u cudnt fight him. but u cud try harder!!! like when he's not tounchin u kik him n da ballz lol. i may not be helpin me sry. but dont blame yo self.
what i think en>fr fr>en
By Qbanteese Comments: 8, member since Sat Dec 09, 2006
On Sat Dec 09, 2006 08:20 PM
no, in no way is this you're fault. i was molested by my step father and let me tell you. i never did anything about it i got out as soon as i could and never looked back. you being so young this sucks. you need to grab him by the balls the next time he tried something and tell him i swear if you touch me again i will slice off your ball's in your sleep and i mean grip em hard. then if he continues. try and catch him get a cam. set it up. set him up tell the police tell your mom tell you father alone. i mean.. try all you can and if that doesnt work go live with a friend. that;s what i did. let me know how it ends up please. hope you stay safe and sorry this has to happen to you
re: Hey, I think I got molested, or is it my fault? Please Help ME! en>fr fr>en
By Qbanteese Comments: 8, member since Sat Dec 09, 2006
On Sat Dec 09, 2006 08:22 PM
your dad needs to beat the fuck out of him and if you're really upset about it you wouldnt care if he did.

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